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couple conflict
romantic relationships
relationship onset
relationship maintenance
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This study analyzes how relational stress, derived from differences in norms and values between partners, affects subjective well-being, conflict, and relationship satisfaction. Three psychological resources—flexibility, tolerance, and adaptability—were evaluated as protective factors in individuals at different stages of the relationship cycle (beginning and maintenance) using path models. Results show that stress negatively impacts well-being and increases conflict, especially during the maintenance phase. In contrast, tolerance and adaptability help reduce negative emotions, improve coexistence, and enhance satisfaction by facilitating adjustment and mutual understanding. These skills allow couples to better navigate the challenges of shared life. In the early stage of the relationship, stress has a lesser impact due to the heightened positive emotional intensity typical of this phase.
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